I remember that when I was a little girl, I would dream of having a garden or a beach wedding. And during summer vacations, I would use my old notebooks to draw my own wedding gown on its spare pages. I guess almost every girl dreams of having that perfect wedding, that perfect gown, and that perfect man; and I am no exception.
I told myself, "I will not settle for anything less
than what I deserve;" but what do I really deserve? That was a long time
question. I have fallen in love and have fallen out of it, went out there and
dated, made mistakes, and even made friends along the way; but these all can be
too tiring sometimes. Maybe I wasn't meant to be with someone - that thought
has crossed my mind a hundred times but whenever it would come as an option, a
guy just comes out of nowhere and says the sweetest things then breaks my
heart. Well, not all the time but you get my point.
I wasn't one to give up, but again, sometimes it does make
me think twice; until I met him. My partner and I started out as friends
sharing out thoughts and opinions about different social issues and the likes
and we just enjoy each other's company. Then, we just realized that we sort of
already fell in love with each other.
Compared to other relationships, ours was a bit peculiar but
it works. We're both driven individuals. We have this set of hopes and dreams
that we want to fulfill; and we wouldn't want our relationship to ever get in
the way of our personal goals and so we learned how to understand and cope up
with our differences and schedules. He is from Quezon City and I just moved to
Pampanga a year ago. The distance itself seems aggravating but it doesn't stop
us. There would be times when he would go to my place or I would go to his.
There may be times when we wouldn't see each other for a few weeks, and even
though it makes us miss each other more, it never creates any worries or
paranoia that the other person might be seeing someone else or does the other
person still loves me, etc. What amazes me is how this relationship is kind of
like a beautiful add-on in our lives. Because we both know each other and we
value the commitment we have, we are very comfortable and at ease that no one
will ever dare cheat nor doubt the relationship that we have. If we have a
problem with the other person, we discuss it immediately rather than prolonging
the issue and keeping it inside. We learned how to be patient and understanding
that we are not perfect and we, sometimes, have our own shortcomings. If one is
stressed, the other person should not add up to that. Let's just say that we do
not believe that real couples argue a lot because we don't. There are some
things we may not agree on but we talk about it in a calm manner and try to
meet in between. Isn't that how things are supposed to be like in a
relationship? It's a partnership not the other one just giving in all the time.
I love him. Have I found the one? Maybe. We'll never know
until that day comes. But, right now, I am happy with how our relationship is
going and I'm not rushing into anything. I love the fact that we both have our
own set of goals and dreams and that we are very driven to make them a reality.
I love how we both support each other and that despite of our crazy and busy
schedules, we never have been a burden nor an additional stress to the other
one.
And because we don't need that add-on stress EVER, when "that" day comes (just the thought brings a funny smile on my face *kilig mode*), I would rather contact someone who can help me organize it all, but of course, that person needs to be someone tested and I trust. Who says I don't look into those already? I do want to be prepared, just in case. Teehee!
Quest Events Management is owned by a good friend of mine,
Cindy Quinones, who understands what every girl in us, women, dream for our
weddings. She understands and makes them a reality. Browsing through her
client's photos and testimonies, I get pretty excited as to how she can make
mine into a dream come true. I know it's a big worry for the women - having the
perfect wedding. So we cannot just go about randomly choosing who our wedding
planner will be; and as a marketing person, myself (even organizing events for
work before), I can give you some useful tips when looking for that perfect
wedding planner for your special event:
1. A strong recommendation from someone you trust - It is
not just enough that they offer the lowest price in the market; because
sometimes, you get what you pay for. Cheap doesn't always equate to great
things. There may be those wonder finds but it's not the case all the time. It
is best to ask around from the people who've had theirs already and those you
know who are in that business.
2. Always ask for a portfolio - If you're not one to take
risks, it is best to ask if they have a portfolio so you can have a good feel
of how your wedding may look like if you hire that planner. If you want
everything to be perfect and memorable, better have someone who really knows
what he/she is doing.
3. Legalities and values - Just in case things don't go as
how you plan them to be, at least you know that the company you're hiring is
legit and you can definitely come after it. Make sure they are registered to
properly and are paying taxes. It is also recommended that the you and the
planner share the same values so that he/she can get a clear grasp as to how
he/she should run the project and interact with the clients.
We only get married once (well for most of us, at least) so
it's imperative that we make it as memorable and as perfect as how it can be.
Stress at dating (before), stress at work, I don't want to have another add-on
stress so when that day comes, I know who to call, and you should know who to run
to as well. Best be prepared, I say!
Visit Quest Events Management at
www.questeventsmanagement.com, and you can also LIKE them on Facebook and
FOLLOW them on Twitter for some kilig wedding inspirations. Oh, and they also
have a 15% discount on all event coordination services until March 31, 2015.
Check them out now!
*Wedding photos used were from the clients of Quest Events
Management
Love how detailed this post is. I've always wanted a garden or beach wedding myself when I was a kid. :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Yette! Grabe ang girls no? We have our wedding planned since we were kids. Hehe
DeleteIt's good that as early as now, you have a clear idea of that perfect day. Cheers to the future :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Badet! <3
DeleteThis is a good read for those who are planning to get married.
ReplyDeletexoxo
MrsMartinez
Thanks, thanks. :D
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