Someone once told me that she admired how I handled the
romantic aspect of my life. But to tell you all quite frankly, there is no big
secret as to how I gracefully date, fall in love, leave, or get my heart
broken. Experience was, actually, the best teacher I have ever had.
When people get their hearts broken, some would fall into
that seemingly endless pit of loneliness, blaming the world, blaming their own
selves, and even wanting to just disappear into thin air. If you have seen the
movie "That Thing Called Tadhana,"
you would know what EXACTLY I mean. Big surprise, I have also had my fair
shares of being depressed, wondering what went wrong, wishing he would be back;
but at the end of the day, I just came upon the realization that my world should
never revolve around the thought of having and maintaining a romantic
relationship with someone; and that is how I managed to become this strong girl
I am today.